**I have no expectations from this site as I know we can meet someone we connect with to have a drink, to share the day, make a new friendship, or, unfortunately more often than not, run the other way. lol ...who knows what life brings. Ultimately I am looking for more, but right now I am just winging it and seeing where it takes me.**

A bit about myself:

I am not one for following the superficial trends of the media telling us what's hot and what's not. I do not see values as the amount of fame someone has, money in their pocket, or amount of degrees under their hat. Don't get me wrong, education is very important, but it's what you learn from it and how you apply it to your life. It's not just about being book smart, It is how you treat the people around you, not just the ones you want to impress.
There is more to life than social stature. It is about love, caring, selflessness, and respect. It's about sharing, helping others when they need a helping hand, and always being there for the ones you love.
I value others opinions and cherish those close to me, and will always remind them just how important they are to me for they always come first.

Ultimately what I am Looking For is a genuine man, unique with himself and not following the standard 'guy rules', he is his own man.
One who respects women as a friend and not as a toy to play with. Looking for a man, not a boy.
Tall, piercing eyes, a smile that makes me melt, and a laugh that makes my heart smile.
Loves to cuddle but knows when to let go as he knows I am there for him always.
Someone fun, spontaneous, and loves to laugh, and always has both feet on the ground.
I always find myself drawn to the cute goofy guy that makes everyone laugh, and, the handsome conservative intellectual sweetheart that makes everyone think.
What stands out in these men are genuine kind strong affectionate hearts.
To have em' rolled into one...
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lol

We all unconsciously look for specific features: the shape of a face, a person's eyes, how someone smiles,... It's been embedded into our psych.
All of us have different features we are attracted to, but its the overall personality in these people we fall for: Their character, how they treat other people, not self absorbed but thoughtful & kind hearted, how they laugh, if they're cuddly, strong yet gentle.


PoF is Lacking:
I have found this site lacks the natural attractions we would feel when getting to know someone. It's backwards when meeting on the internet. Although we should not compromise what we are looking for some of us get caught up in searching for perfection and always wanting to upgrade and wait for better. ...In reality when getting to know someone in a social setting be it through friends, work, or an activity, it is those imperfections someone has and seeing them in everyday settings we grow attached and attracted to. It's also in seeing they way they treat others around them and how others see them. ...You can not get that from the internet. I'm thinking we make it so much harder on ourselves by not giving someone we find interesting and are initially attracted to in first meeting a second chance because we are constantly checking our messages to see who better might be there. ...Mind you
This is why I choose to meet someone as a friend first. ...I am not looking for one night stands as anyone can get that easy enough from the pub. lol
...I am seeking more.
Patience is a virtue.


***PLEASE READ***
If you send me a message please have at least 2 clear photos of yourself. ie: no shades, ab shots with you looking the other way, or far shots. I have 5 clear photos to show who I am, I would hope to have the same in return.

P.S
Please do not waste my time with idle internet chat, text messaging, overly busy scheduals, and after hour "meet me" calls.

Thank you.

Skydiving? ...Maybe that's more a second date. :P
A casual drink/coffee on a patio and maybe a leisurely stroll along the seawall/beach.