I am not afraid of speaking by phone or meeting ask :) I'm not the perfect guy on here cause the perfect guy only exist in the eyes of a sole mate. Yes women have the upper hand on sites like this. I could start emailing women from this site and end up a year older before getting a chance to know a woman on here. So here is the secret of women who go out on dates as opposed of those who do not. Email us. In the world of online dating, women make the moves first. In the real world a man can just step up to a woman on the street and say hello. If you want to know me, just say hi and we are off and running.

Let loose and have fun in life! Don't take life too seriously.nobody makes it out alive! You just have to let it in. Women get soooo many emails it is hard for a woman to answer all emails and the endless cycle never stops and nobody makes any friends. Ha isn't that funny how it works on a social networking site like POF. The other side for a guy is we get lots of advertisements to join paid sites from women who say they are interested.. so they say... Anyways tough for both sides

I am older that b day says, got to be honest, but that is because I don't want to rule out all ages. PICS are current No, don't have to try to act younger, it just comes natural :) but mature. I love music it's one of the things I do this is my music site http:www.lahitmanbeatz.us where you can chat to me live. I am cursed with energy. very positive, objective, and love new fresh ideas kinda guy. Money does not impress me, I've had it lost it gained it back, lost it again. It comes and goes, it's just a tool in life.

If you are in your 20's and saying to yourself I am too old for you, then I will probably say you are too old for me! Cause closing your mind without getting to know someone is a sign of an old thinking person. I don't care if you are in your 20's, 30's 40's or more. Think outside the box and don't care about age, then you are the kind of person that is on her way to being open minded, I have to say I like that.

My father and mother lived in a day when the below was more common.
A gentleman should say, "Sex CAN wait"
A gentleman should say, "You're beautiful."
A gentleman is never too busy to drive across town to see her.
A gentleman gives her flowers and a card when she is sick or down.
A gentleman should give her flowers just because that's how he rolls.
A gentleman should say he would die for her.
A gentleman should do what she wanted to do even if he didn't want to.
A gentleman is not afraid to cry in front of her. ....
A gentleman holds hands with her.
A gentleman kisses her with meaning, and not just cuz he's hard.

I can be serious or a goof ball no I didn't say hair ball kinda guy. I live life exploring anything that comes. I’m living life and pushing the limits of new experiences. Music is in my daily life, I have been fortunate to have made a living from it for a long time. I have been fortunate to work on a Satellite Space Shuttle Program for NASA at Kennedy Space Center in Florida and now I am about to start film school in LA to produce movies my first love. I am here for friends, who knows maybe more, maybe less or more or less. Who knows. I’m here with no expectations, but with total respect for who I meet.
Your life is not defined by people who don't care about your dreams, your life is defined by the courage you find in yourself to seek and conquer your dreams. PS Once you get to know me you can talk to me, call me, hit me in the head with a water balloon, email me anytime if you wish. I am very easy to talk to. I love being Imaginative and creative. I enjoy engaging my senses through writing, music, recording artist, composing music. I love sports, but love playing them more than watching them like a spud on the sofa. I always have goals, I never give up. Success is achieved by the foundation you lay down. Never let anyone say it can't be done.
Music is in my blood. To look at me you would have never figured out what kinda music I have produced and recorded. Rock? Alternative? Country? TRY RAP ha fooled you. Yes, like others, I would have never thought hip hop would last so long. But I got into it professionally in 96 and got really good at producing it on the underground level. Met snoop dog, ect. Ice T, Friends with Rick James old manager and a list of others. Looks can be deceiving on what a person does. This is just another chapter in my life of adventures. So much more to do!! Love classical music, was trained in guitar and some piano, love jazz, house music and more. PS I have 3 boys.. 2 are teens, one 12. They are my partners in life. I do love kids and they seem to always like me lol.
I’m off for now..

The mind is such a sensual part of us that can be explored. But who can really say what would happen on a first date, that's the exciting part. Not knowing. PS. if you are into paintball, roller blading, bike riding, dancing, playing basket ball, indoor rollerskating and being active, I love those things. If you are not, it's ok there is so much more to do too. I love being active.