Retired Navy, 23yrs. For relaxing times I enjoy a game of golf, began playing while living in Bermuda, a movie, scuba diving(it's been awhile, but talk about peaceful below...), listening to good music, or to that special other. Anything that allows me to be me, without hassles of worrying about everyday issues. You may ask "How's listening to that special other can be relaxing?" It's like this, the hassles of everyday life does not and should not include your "lovemap" That "love" should be your portal of escape...the manager of your comfort zone. Hassles, there's a time and place I believe. I ALWAYS kiss with PASSION. Maybe it's a southern thing, after all, I'm from the south and believe in pleasing that special "lovemap" FIRST. Enough of that :) As for fun...well...I'd try anything once, twice, blah, blah, blah... Although there isn't an ocean coast here to enjoy a weekend drive, while residing in San D, driving the coast, having lunch between cities, amusements, or just going to the back yard to kick sand. Whatever it took/takes to make things exciting, different and fun then I'm up for it.

More importantly than the first date, how about what I'm looking for...What's truly sexy is confidence, warmth, intelligence, and love. When you show those parts of yourself to the right man, in this case, ME ;-)) but seriously, he will know you for the unique and special woman you are, and he won't be able to resist you!! Never EVER taking you for granted! Just because this is a dating site doesn't mean one can't find what one secretly craves and/or desires...I don't want someone trying to become the woman that's assumed I want. Be yourself, because thats the only thing you can do really well, which works both ways...If you feel very emotional, and find yourself wanting to cry, don't hold back. I'm there for you, IF you desire my shoulder. Just know how to have fun, and enjoy being blessed with someone you know cares. No limitations on my part...you tell me...good/bad or indifferent...it is what it is...I'd be happy knowing I've brought a complete STOP to your experience with this world of cyber insanity ;-)) True Romance is something you either have or u don't. If taught to you, it's not "TRUE" passion!

However, the first date...relax, be yourself...let the chips fall where ever they may. We will both know by meetings end. I will say this, I've always been told, "seems like I've know you forever" I call that "comfort" ;-)) Let's have a tea, lunch and perhaps you may tell me???