I'm a recently separated mum of two. I'm a third of the way through a psychology degree with the OU so eventually I'd like to do something in this field

Ooooh well what makes me unique?? Well it's difficult to describe one's uniqueness and well we're all unique aren't we? Positively in some cases, negative in others :-). But I'm very friendly, chatty and sweet (or so I'm told!); I'm affectionate and cuddly but have a very adventurous streak; I love love love to dance; I'm intelligent but not up to date with current affairs; I have been known to be witty occasionally; I'm petite, have waist length blonde hair and a fabulous bottom (but well who's interested such superficial details ;-))

I'm looking for someone very intelligent but not too intellectual; someone who's mature but not boring; someone who knows how to dress; someone who's not afraid to show their emotions. The most important things to me are chemistry, affection and a shared sense of humour; open mindedness and being able to think for yourself are also very important.

I absolutely do not want anyone playing games with me and stringing me along; if you like me tell me and if not, do the same. I'm a single mum but I am not looking for someone to provide for me...money is not important and I am perfectly capable of looking after myself.

Hmmmm I'm not entirely sure why a long description of my ideal first date would make me more popular...possibly less popular if I was being so fussy!

Just the usual: a drink or a meal.