I live in St. Louis so what makes women contact me who live 250 miles away. I did that back in summercamp and it didn't work then either. Hey its John a 43 y/o african american male. I work out fairly regular to try to keep in good physical condition and I shower and bathe regularly. I usually pick up the tab at dinner and going out. I have my own place so we don't have to tiptoe past my mama's bedroom to do it. I work a regular job and have my own ride. I like doing lots of stuff but photography is my hobby. I love rock, like jazz and Rymthym n blues and can tolerate the rest.

I just got out of a marriage so I'm not looking to jump into anything ultra serious off the flip but with the right girl... I have a healthy sex drive so I definitely ain't looking for a prude, I like a woman who enjoys sex and isn't uptight about it. The only thing I ask is that you be willing to judge me on my own merits and not bring the baggage of past relationships with you; too many men and women do that one. I prefer women somewhere around a size 4-12 but if you're a little bigger and sexy as hell with lots of attitude, I might have to reconsider. Give me a holla and lets get something started.