I’m easy-going and relaxed but don’t mistake that for shyness or lack of confidence. I am perfectly capable of getting what I want, when I want it. I don’t like games or childishness. I would rather enjoy life than complain about it. I don’t have any self-esteem issues and I have no time for controlling types. I have a great personality and a wicked sense of humor and need someone who either has the same qualities or isn’t easily intimidated by someone who does.

I’m looking for someone with an athletic build, and just because you go to a gym, doesn’t necessarily mean you have an athletic build. I don’t have an athletic build (yet) but I’m thin and I am currently working on a more toned and healthier me so it would be beneficial to be able to talk to someone who can relate.

I have a 20 year old son who lives with me, but if you have younger children that’s fine too.

I’m a huge fan of cooking and I’m always trying out new dishes, seafood is my favorite so if you are allergic to shellfish you and I will just not work out. I love eating out as well, trying new restaurants, also BBQ’s are fun too.

Going to the beach was always a favorite past time for me, I haven’t been for so long and would like to get back into taking weekend trips. There are a lot of places out of the country I would like to visit too.

I currently live in Central NJ and I love it. I have no plans on re-locating unless I make a connection with someone locally and we make that a joint decision.

A first date should be something simple and relaxed, like drinks or coffee at a restaurant/bar, Sports bars are just too noisy, you can't even hear yourself think let alone what the person you're with is saying.