My hobbies are cooking, golf, softball, and music. I like to just relax after a hard days work as well. I love to do things with my son & daughter. Sightseeing is an easy fix for a 10 & 14 year old. I enjoy a woman who is confident in herself. I am a positive thinking person. What does't kill you will make you stronger kind of guy. I would love to own a restaurant on the beach in a small touristy kinda place, example Cabo San lucas. keeping it simple isn't a bad way to live. Don't stress the stuff you CANNOT control, it isn't worth it! people need to have a live and let live kinda attitude. All within common sensible reasoning. Be smart and don't judge a book by the cover.

A first date should consist of two people at ease with one another and just being one's self is a great approach! If you have nothing to hide you shouldn't be uncomfortable. I am open to all kinds of different first dates. I love to cook for a date whatever she likes. I am looking for a kind hearted loyal lady who likes to have fun. I am all for taking walks, exercising together, catching a ballgame or a good movie. Even a chick flick for that matter!!!