Ladies please read this first. I am a father of a 4 year old who does not live with me and he is very important to me and so if you are not interested in a father like person then please move on. If you are not going to accept the fact that I have a son, and that I will have to be with him sometimes then you won't be on my good side.
Again he is the most important person in my life and will always be my most priority, so please don't even try if you feel a slight chance you might feel like you'd have to compete with him.
Now that we are clear, go ahead and read on!!!


I like to think that I am (but not limited to LOL):
- A simple guy (but am so surprised at how life gets so complicated)
- Funny and enjoy life
- Caring, and loving
- Willing to go the extra mile
- Goal oriented, and a Hard worker (I love what I do, and I do a lot of it)
- I smile a lot, and as was told give out a good vibe to others when they are around me
- Oh am a KID when am around KIDs, and KIDS love me!
- Down to earth
- Value life
- Help others with whatever I can
- Goofy, and love to tease the people I care about, but of course there are limits!
- I love company, and enjoy my social life.
- Honest and hate playing games
- Family is very important to me
(I hope you don't take anything I am saying now as if I have a conceded kind of personality, I am just trying to list the things I believe I am and if you don't believe me, please read my the results on my "Relationship Needs Assessment" survey that I took)

I'm looking for:
- A simple, Easy going, Relaxed, Respectful woman
- Not into drama.
- Has her life figured out for the most part and is goal oriented as well
- Trust worthy, and trusting to others
- Has a big heart, and care for those in need

You can be a mother? sure why not, a family oriented person? sounds good, a student? let me know how I can help!
What I am trying to say is that I am not a very picky guy, and I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and a chance to prove themselves.

I believe a first date depends alot on both parties.
I think food is a great thing to add to the outing, but the awkwardness of sitting at a dinner table for two may or may not be an easy task.
Bars, are places of people who want to scream at each other since they tent to get louder by the minute, and I don't think a first date should have much of yelling going, lol
Clubbing, well now we're talking, let me show you some of my moves! lol but that can come after we hangout a bit at the beginning of the date.
I think the best thing to do is:
Grab a sandwich, and go for a walk by the Hudson river, the board walk, or the beach?
A nice open lit up park would be also nice.
But ready for the best idea?
The mall, you walk around, look around, have quick food from the food court, and find a couple of places that are of you and my interest and go on from there!!!