Ok, I am not really certain what I can achieve on here, but it is worth a try to see what is out there. I am a 23 year old, full figured, African American female and am currently attending college. I have a desire to finish school with my Ph.D and nothing can deter me from that all consuming goal. I am not interested in anything but a long term relationship, someone who has aspirations and who can support mine. I do not enjoy being patronized or feeling as though what I desire comes a distant second, or even third. I know the way I am stating all this sounds a bit sever and to the point but I have learned if you do not speak bluntly, people seem only too happy to misinterpret what you want and then blame you for their misinformation. Now, besides what I want, i am very sarcastic, my humor is based entirely on sarcasm, so take nearly everything i say with a grain of salt. Well, for those I haven't scared off, I'd be only too happy to talk to you.

My idea of a first date may seem so very cliche, but I can not help what I like. I would want to go to the movies, nothing romantic only because I don't really enjoy romantic movies. I'd prefer something with lots of action, like Transformers 2, which I am dying to see. I'd then want to go to dinner where we'd discuss, endlessly, the merits of the movie we have just seen. Finally, i'd like to go to a lake or something, not walk, but sit and talk some more watching the rippling waves and the sky. So corny, I know, but there you have it.