Well, lets see... who am I again? Wait for it... Finally! - brain waves. I would describe myself as established in my career and goal-oriented. I'm a guy that really enjoys making people smile and can laugh at himself. Can I hold up my end of a conversation? Yes. I'm a caring person that has great respect for the way other people feel. When I'm with "that special someone" I'm playful, spontaneous, and romantic as much as I can be without being sickeningly so... does that even make sense? I consider myself sensual, definitely a sexual being, but also always trying to be lighthearted. Everyone like to smile, right? Someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with. I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires who's looking for someone with whom they can connect. I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit or getting fit (as I have been working at so very hard) and being attractive (I find beauty in many forms) are important, as well as sensuality and being generally affectionate. Having similar interests helps. I enjoy going to concerts, going to the beach anytime of day or night, watching movies, travelling whenever possible, going kayaking, or being still... having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having fun and enjoying each other to the fullest. I'm pretty much an open book, so if I missed something - ask.

Hmmm... what WOULDN'T i do on a first date is a better question. Running with the bulls in Pamplona is out. Skydiving? Maybe, but it's so hard to chat with the earth hurtling toward you like that - it's distracting. Harvesting organs is profitable, but messy, and again distracting. This question is loaded and socially biased! I want a recount!

LOL - Why don't we just cross that bridge when we jump off of it? Heyyyy.... =)