I want to adore someone and to be adored everyday and forever, with passion, with kindness, with affection, with deep conversation, with understanding, with playfulness, with romance, with laughter, with intensity and with curiosity and a generous spirit.

I am both modern and old fashioned, often at the same time.

I don't have a list of things you need to be or things you need to like or dislike.

I've been in 2 major relationships in my life, 1 for 11 years and 1 for 7 years, I miss being in love and going to bed holding someone and waking up to their face .

Good relationships are fluid and dynamic and are about co-creating meaning together.

For me it's about passion, laughter, loving, eating, dreaming, listening, talking, touching, etc.

Cliches desired:

Best Friends, lovers, time together, lots of kissing in public and in private, walking, exploring, engaging, being interested in each other, in people, and in the world, being interested in what starts you and what stops you, being loved and letting me love you....

The only real requirement I have is that I want to be with someone who is actually ready to accept and to give and to value being loved and loving....

My 2 favorite quotes:

1) "...everybody knows that a peanut butter and jelly sandwich is not the fastest sandwich in the world, but it does have great endurance..." (from Stop That Pickle)

2)"...For me you are a treasure more laden
with immensity than the sea and its branches
and you are white and blue and spacious like
the earth at vintage time.
In that territory,
from your feet to your brow,
walking, walking, walking,
I shall spend my life"
(Pablo Neruda)


My experience tells me that passion and romance and enjoying each other's company doesn't have to diminish over time...

It's about connecting and feeling something

everything else is just everything else....