I like the well-considered life; thinking, laughing, learning, sharing, appreciating its nuances. I am a listener as well as a talker. I'm attracted to independent, irreverent, athletic women who also can listen, and aren't self-obsessed. I clean up ok, but I prefer the informal and spiritual to the formal and materialistic. I'm a professional jazz guitarist who likes a wide musical palette.

Something simple and quiet. I want to look in her eyes, see who she is, hear her laughter, find out what we have in common. Meet for coffee in the morning or a glass of wine in the evening, or a look at the ocean any time.