| | I like to spend time with those that I care about. I believe in trust,respect,being a good friend and being yourself. I enjoy the comfort of simple things like home and family. I'am looking for some thing that will eventually evolve into a serious committed relationship. However I would like to build a friend ship first,because I believe that a solid friendship is a good foundation,for a long happy healthy relationship.
I'am single because I don't lower my base line,just to settle down. If you don't set a base line standard,for what you accept in life. You will find it easy to slip into behavior,attitudes or a quality of life that is far below what you deserve or desire. I would never let fear of loneliness lead me to an unhappy and dysfunctional relationship.
I believe that two people should bring out mostly the good in each other,or move on and find some one who does,happiness is not a final destination,but rather a journey.It's the little things along the way that are meant to be enjoyed. I also believe life is about perspective and we choose how we view people and situations.
I'am not interested in most girls.I find girls are cute,but I'am strictly interested in a Lady!!(big difference) I'am interested in a Lady who is confidant,independent,with her own goals, dreams and ambitions, who actually has time to spend in a real relationship,not some one that just wants to squeeze you into there busy schedule or play with peoples heads or hearts for fun.
I have no baggage or addictions etc.So there fore I don't think it's unreasonable to expect similar in return. Yes baggage is baggage no matter how you want to try and spin it!!!
If any of the following applies to you (please take a powder) lol lol
Must not be married. Must not be a smoker. Must not do drugs. Must not be looking for intimate encounter or one night stands. Must not be a baby mummy. I do like kids and adore my niece and nephews,but want my own kids some day, with the special girl that I will spend the rest of my life with.I want to create and raise my own,its called a even playing field,besides nobody wants to come second or third. I'am a quality guy,I won't settle for less!! Must not be emotionally damaged from picking the wrong guys or being in abusive relationships.(even though its mostly not a fault of your own.)
Thanks for looking and if something interests you,find me. Great luck in your adventures!! |