Let me make myself VERY clear!!!!! I don't date black guys and no.....theres nothing wrong with me'! I also don't just hook up with men so just figure u have six months to a year before I even think about it!!!

First of all if you're not looking for a long term relationship please don't message me. I'm really tired of men that are only looking for one thing, are emotionally unavailable or are professional daters. I'm looking to grow with one person and it's really just a waste of both our times if you're not on the same page and I can read through BS in a heart beat!!!

To let me know if we may have a chance please read the following and place your answer in your message to me.....

***We are having family and friends over for a nice dinner for the Holidays and you love to cook. I help out where I can and then our guest begin to arrive. After serving dinner what would you expect to have happen????

A~We both go to the kitchen and clean all the dishes until things are spotless, even if it means we miss out on quality time with our family and friends. After all they shouldn't just eat and run.

B~Clean a little as guest bring in their dishes then spend time visiting. We can finish after they leave and it's not a big deal if there are a couple of things that need to wait until morning.

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So here's an update....I've been here for two months now and it's starting to feel a little like home. I'm looking to coach a High School or College dance team and get back to my passion of dance. I'm also looking for nice places to hang out so if you know of any please pass them along. I love being social and dancing. I also like just hanging out at home or going to a nice park for the day. I guess you can say I'm basically eclectic on many different levels. A friend told me about this site so I figured I would give it a try and see if I can actually go on at least one date with a normal person:-)

I'm pretty laid back and will try just about anything once. I like good food and good wine. Also a nice scotch or whiskey at times. Did I mention I love the smell of a nice cigar??? I'm getting back to the workout routine and run twice a day so staying fit is very important to me. I love my kids and try to be the best mom that I can be.

What am I attracted to a very confident man that won't take that step into arrogant. I'm 5'8" and wear hills up to 4" so if you're not 6'1" you need to hold your own with a tall woman....nothing is sexier than that!

Stay positive!!!!!

OK Boys~ Here are some helpful tips on profiles.....
1. Unless you have a six pack pictures with your shirt off are just plain creepy...
2. If you have a dog put up a picture....girls always love a man with a dog, but who isn't a dog.....
3. Making a girl laugh will get you further than getting her drunk!!!


NO MORE DRAMA!!!!!!
It feels so good
When you let go
Of all the drama in your life
Now you're free from all the pain
Free from all the games
Free from all the stress
So find your happiness

I don’t know
Only god knows where the story ends for me
But I know where the story begins
It’s up to us to choose
Whether we win or lose
And I choose to win
~Mary J. Blige~