I am not looking for a "hookup" or to be involved with a married man. I'm not looking for the next guy, I'm looking for THE guy. The one who's willing to take a chance, let his gaurd down, have no expectations and just enjoy the moment.

I enjoy doing just about anything as long as I'm getting some much needed attention.

I am currently going through a divorce and I hate for that to be the topic of discussion because it by no means defines anything about me, my integrity, my honesty, trustworthiness, or my dedication to family and commitments. Those are actually some of my best qualities. I am an open book. I have no secrets, to speak of.

I know what I want out of life in general, but am known to be fairly indecisive on unimportant details and sometimes on huge decisions.

I have a very strong bond with my family and a few select friends. I'm completely uncoordinated when it comes to athletics and dancing but I like to go out and have fun. I enjoy evenings at home with the right people. I hate confrontations and don't like to fight and argue. I'm very laid back and easy to get along with, but very shy at first. I'm a little insecure about some things but confident about most things. I am who I am and believe that I am beautiful inside and out. I'm comfortable in my own skin.

I have one child and will not be having anymore...ever. She is sometimes the only thing that gets me through life but I don't desire any more children.

I am a compromising person and very tolerating and forgiving. Sometimes those can be faults. I have needs that I want met and standards set that I am not willing to negotiate on.

I own a home, pay for my own car and all my bills myself, and I expect the same of you. I am independent to that degree but am also known to be a little needy and clingy like a Damsel in distress needing to be rescued. I believe everyone has a desire to feel loved, appreciated, accepted and needed but also believe that some people don't know how to accept or reciprocate those things.

I have had the same job for 14 years now and am typically resistant to change in general. Not afraid to try new ideas or situations just a little hesitant sometimes. I'm very open minded and accept people with their faults because we all have faults. It's just a matter of which ones are negotiable and acceptable.

These are the very accurate results of a quiz:
"What's Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type?"
You are warmhearted, conscientious, and cooperative. You want harmony in your environment, and work with determination to establish it. You like to work with others to complete tasks accurately and on time. You are loyal and follow through even in small matters. You notice what others need in their day-by-day lives and try to provide it. You want to be appreciated for who you are and for what you contribute.

Almost anywhere or anything...but never "your place or mine" read that again if you need to just to make sure you read it right.