Hello! Well, where do I start?? I am a very outgoing gal, love to be social and meet new people. I'm looking for friends and dating first, but ultimately a long term relationship. Yes, I am separated, and have been for nearly two years, with absolutely no intentions of reconnecting with my ex. If you want to know whay I'm not divorced, ask, and I'll tell you. I don't have children, but I'm the proud mom of 2 dogs, 2 cats and a hedgehog. I don't want my own children, but I am open to the idea of dating someone who has kids. Now, if you've read this far, you deserve a gold star.. lol!

For work, I'm a model maker in the rapid prototyping industry.. I do alot of sanding and painting, very similar to working in auto body. It's been an interesting career, but not what I want to do for the rest of my life.

Let's see. Yes, I drink beer.. I'm a beer snob, and yes I smoke. I take care of myself, but I'm sure as hell not perfect.. nor do I expect anyone else to be. I work and play equally as hard, and like fun crazy nights out just as much as I like staying in and relaxing. I have many things that interest me, and am always up for trying something new. My main hobby is Medieval Combat, and have been fighting for 13 years. I love art, movies and music. I enjoy camping and traveling.. there's nothing like a good road trip with the right person.. bring on the adventure!! lol! I have a quirky sense of humor, and am always laughing about something, and I'm always out to have a good time no matter what it is I'm doing. Sure I have my dislikes, but I think "douchebaggery" pretty much sums that up.. ;P I'm straight forward, and abhor drama and games, and I have no problems speaking my mind.. I expect that kind of honesty and "in-your-faceness" in return. (Yes,I know that's not really a word.. lol!)

I like all kinds of movies, especially B rated Horror. My favorite movies would include Boondock Saints, LOTR Trilogy, anything Romero, anything Kevin Smith, Shaun of the Dead, Across the Universe, Repo the Genetic Opera... but this list could go on forever.. lol!

I'm a music nut, and my tastes are all over the board.. punk, rock, indie, 80's, alternative, industrial, metal.. pretty much anything that isn't rap or country. Some of my favorite artists are Dropkick Murphys, Flogging Molly, Tossers, Muse, VAST, Depeche Mode, The Cure, Sister Machine Gun... yet another list that could go on forever.

I also do like to read..and well, let's just say if it's in front of me and looks even remotely interesting, I'll read it.

I'm looking for someone with similar interests, but enough differences to keep it lively. I get along with all types of people, but a humorous extrovert is probably the most compatible.. lol! :) Someone I could learn something fun from, like playing the guitar,or riding a motorcycle.. heck I'm even interested in learning car restoration! lol! The right guy will be able to keep up with me, as well as have quiet nights together.. but most importantly someone who isn't going to try to change me into their ideal person, or judge me from my past. I'm fine with who I am as an individual, and what I have gone through the past few years has only made me better and stronger. :) I would love to finally find the guy who inspires and intrigues me, motivates and is a muse for me, who likes to truly live and experience life, who is supportive, caring and passionate.. He'll get even more from me in return! I'm a tough gal with a gianormous heart :)

I suppose I could drag this out even more, but why should I give away all the details?? lol!I'm very open, so if you feel like asking questions.. please do! :)Thanks for taking the time to read this blather.. hope to hear from some great guys soon!! If you actually read this whole thing.. wow.. hifive!! That earns ANOTHER gold star,AND a piece of bubblegum!!! lol! ;)

Something casual like shooting darts, grabbing a few drinks, and have a chance to talk and get to know each other. I really don't think there is an "ideal" first date.. as long as we laugh alot and have a good time, that's all that matters, right?!;)