I am a widow lady now for over 4 years. I have no immediate family and dont know anyone to make friends with in my area. And I am shy so that doess't help. I am a southern born lady that is gentle in speech and have a good sweet heart. I show respect to everyone i meet and would like to be respected back,I dont appreciate men cussing in front of me so I guess you could say I would like to meet an old fashioned true gentleman that knows what the word means. I prefer black men, for no paticular reason except I just prefer them. I have nothing against white men, any man can be a gentleman if he chooses to. I dont play games, I never did and I wont start now, I am NOT looking for a part/time lover. First I want to become friends and see how we get along then maybe that will lead to something else, but I am an old fashioned lady and was raised with good solid morals, if you know what that means , then good for you.. lol

I am a big woman so if you judge people on their size then I am not the one for you. I judge no one by their size, color or riches. I RESPECT A PERSON AND IF THEY HAVE A GOOD, GENTLE HEART, THATS ENOUGH FOR ME.. PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND IF YOU LOOK AT SIZE BECAUSE I AM NOT A YOUNG GIRL AND I SAG WITH AGE, HAVE A GREAT BIG BELLY,AND HAVE THE USUAL LINES IN MY FACE THAT A LADY GETS AT MY AGE. BUT I AM A GOOD , SWEET PERSON. I AM HONEST, I DO NOT LIKE LIARS, SO IF YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR THE HONEST TRUTH DONT ASK ME!!