Very handsome man, 49, 6'2", 175, salt and pepper hair and blue eyes. I am an intelligent, considerate, honest, genuine and loving soul who has a special quality as a person that is extremely difficult to find in life. I love the ocean, and surfing is still my passion. I try to stay present every moment, do the right thing and be kind and thoughtful to others. I can do that because I don't allow drama in my life.

I enjoy many activities from fun, active and intimate to spontaneous and life-expanding. I know there are outstanding women who are looking for the qualities I have. I would like to meet a very attractive, slender, fitness oriented woman 39-49. You are a classy, fun, caring, compassionate, loving, sensuous and sexy woman. You like who you are and where you are in life. Finding the right guy would be icing on the cake. You take care of yourself physically, but are not fanatical or extreme in any activity.

You don't need a relationship, but it would be nice. We share our lives with love, playfulness and respect. I am not a controlling or judgmental guy. You always have the freedom to be you, and spend time with your family and friends.

I desire that spark or chemistry with someone that includes a physical, mental and spiritual connection. I am looking for a woman who is missing intimacy with someone special. You have a sexual craving to be shared with one man. You can be wild and free with one man because of trust and a connection beyond our senses. You can envision being with a man who will always respect you, be her confidant, and look out for your best interests in many different ways.

Looking to share similar activities we both enjoy, whether it is working out, going out or hanging out. The main thing is we enjoy being with each other. The word is over used, but true, chemistry is either there or it is not. It is not something that can be manufactured between two people.