We're all here for the same reason (ok, most of us), to meet somebody for companionship, friendship, leading hopefully to a relationship. (what alot of ships!)
If you're one of the minority who are only here to play around, please move on.
I know what I do and don't like. Wearers of footy shirts, owners of Staffies and the like and somebody who can't get through the day without 7 pints is NOT my thang.
It's difficult to say what kind of man attracts me as I don't have a type, apart from preferring over 5ft 10, broad shoulders, nice bum, muscley arms, good teeth, good aftershave, compatible sense of humour, intelligent...........yeah I know, why am I on here??lol

I'd plan a quick coffee, 30 mins max, if we are mutually impressed, make a date! Time is precious.
Gone are the days of meeting at 7 and politely sitting with somebody all evening who makes your flesh creep ;-)