I am an average guy who enjoys the outdoors and the company of my kids. Looking for an open minded girl who can take care of herself. I dont judge, rather just accept people as they are. I am comfortable at home watching movies or out on the town. I suppose that the one thing that I probably haven't done in my profile has been to really sell myself. That's because I am so uncomfortable with the concept. If you met me, you would probably like to talk to me (most people do), and you would likely find me different than a lot of other guys you have dated. But more than anything, you would know, very soon, whether or not you were attracted to me because I am honest, I speak my mind and I don't play games. I think that's why I have never felt like I needed to sell myself.I don't flirt just to get a girl to like me. I can be loud on occassion but I am friendly and funny with an outgoing personallity. I am however shy when it comes to the dating scene!!! I think its important to be good friends with the person you want to spend your time with - you need to be able to trust them. I still believe that the man should look after the woman but I would never want her to give up work or her independence.

It all depends on the person and what they enjoy doing.