I'm a pretty laid back kinda woman. Very easy going, outspoken & honest. I'm the definition of REAL. Probably unlike any other female you've met (but we all say that dont we? lol). I'm extremely low maintenance (...no really) and I have a twisted sense of humor. As far as music goes i'm pretty much open, but I'm an R&B head for life. I also dig hiphop (anything NOT shown on TV) and cats like Little Dragon, Adele & Strange Fruit Project. I'm a hermit so I'm usually at home when I'm not doing the 9-5. I'm into graphic design & relaxing, watching movies. I have an oldschool soul and my inner swagger is still stuck in the 90s. LOL. I grew up with older brothers & did "boy stuff" in my younger years & I still have that tomboy in my heart (I've just learned over the years how to look hot doing it lol). Mind you, You won't catch me in heels, a face full of makeup and fancy, designer clothes. it just ain't me and I dont really choose to walk around in pain/uncomfortable in hopes of impressing anyone. if you cant accept me in jeans and sneakers, then we most likely wouldn't get along. Anything else you're curious about...just ask ;)
P.S. So I've decided to add a couple things to this after being on here a bit and getting certain messages from certain individuals who shall remain nameless lol...
#1. I didnt post any full body pictures of myself on purpose. For a couple reasons that are kind of irrelevant (mostly cause im not here to advertise my body). But if you're curious, just read that lil part at the top where it says "Body Type". If you want a slim fit chic...keep it moving. I dont go to the gym and I dont eat salads all day. Sorry. I'ma give you something to hold on to.. lol.
#2. Im not usually too eager to chat with men who's names are "Sexy hot chocolate brotha" or "iwillpleaseyouallnightlong696969" especially when the profile totally contradicts the name. I just dont see why you would feel the need to advertise ur "sexiness" through your name. Usually its a straight up delusion and you're actually overcompensating for something you lack. Stoppit.
#3. Please dont ask me extra vague questions such as "so what are you about?" or "tell me all about yourself". It feels like an interview. I'd rather have a normal conversation and let those lil tidbits of information just come out naturally.
#4. If you find these "rules" stink/snobby/etc etc blah blah....erm...it nuh mattah! lol. NEXT!
#5. Um..I told a lil fib in my profile and stated I didn't smoke. Actually I do. I smoke the green. Just didnt wanna misinform and sound like a cigarette smoker. I would have also stated "yes" under "Do you do drugs?" but when I had done that previously, people thought I was a crackhead. lol. Not cool. Oh, and I'm quite upset that selecting "high school" under the Smarts category ends up displaying "N/A" instead. Then why allow me to select high school? Does this mean I'm a dummy?

Also not cool.
#6. Please dont ask me to meet up with you somewhere during our first conversation. I mean, its great that you're all about meeting new people, but Im not really on here to "hook up" and if I do decide to meet you, theres gotta be some sort of connection online first. I need to know we can hang before wasting my time & yours by meeting up when all we've said to eachother is "whaddup!". Sidenote: Please portray yourself online in the same way you would in person. Stop all that false advertising! lol
#7. Please, PLEASE be real. Just be...you. Dont try to impress me cause I definitely wont try to impress you..lol. And I prefer not to be treated like a "female". Yes, I am 100% woman and I know when & how to bring out my sex appeal, but seriously..i grew up with men, hang out with "the man dem" and im not a girly girl. Trust me, you wont hurt my feelings by cracking on me or telling me my butt looks fat in my jeans...lol.
Ok...there we go. Maybe that will weed out the foolios. Although...no one really reads all this to the end anyway. lawd help me.
P.S. Yes, I AM 32 (soon to be 33). Stop calling me a liar! lol I may look like im hella young, but trust that I'm not. I get it from my mama! lol
P.P.S if you hit me up on MSN, please state ur POF name. I find it odd that some men from here have been offended when I asked them who they were. Unless your MSN name is the same as this one...shaddup with all that "I cant believe you dont know who I am" crap! LOL
I dont usually go on "dates". I would have to leave that up to the man. And if I disagree, he better have a plan B. lol