Hello... I am hoping to be able to meet some really great people through this sight, but ultimately searching for that "special" friend.
**Race/Ethnicity is not a factor. (I find that I get asked that question a lot)
HONESTY is the first and foremost quality that I value in an individual. Loyalty, Integrity, and having a sense of family are also among the list of “gotta haves”...

I am a playful ~cat~(Leo) and I am spontaneous which can be a "fun" thing, so you must be some what playful yourself. I like to do silly and romantic things that will make you smile, shake your head or laugh outloud. I also appreciate giving and receiving little "reminders" of affection. (ie.. a note, a flower picked along the roadside, etc...)

I have been told that I have a great sense of humor. I must admit, I love to share laughter with friends and family. I do also have a more serious side. I am a single parent and I work full time. While my schedule is a busy one, I would still love to have a special relationship with the right person.

I am not a size 3 and also not a BBW. I am plus size woman, one of my male friends says I should say I'm "thick", he seems to think there is a difference. *lol* I just don't know, none of it sounds very flattering. I'm just me... My eyes are gray/blue and my hair is really long and brown with white/silver that frames my face. I am 5'10" tall, so I am more drawn to men that are 5'11" to 7'0" range.

Let me see... what am I looking for? The givens: Honesty, Loyalty, sense of commitment to family and friends. I love to be hugged and held close... so you must be a squeezy kinda' guy. I want someone who will not shy away from mild to moderate (or more...) displays of affection out in public. I like to walk and hold hands, give that little kiss while standing on the docks at sunset etc...

My Ideal Person: Someone that is emotionally strong and kind hearted, genuine, independant and loves to share laughter.
I want to be able to share my wildest fantasies, my deepest desires and my life goals with someone. I want him to be my best friend and lover.
I would like someone that I can call up if I am at work/away just to say, "Hey... guess what just happened" or "Hi... I miss you", and be the one to get the same kind of calls... I want butterflies when I think about "him", I want us to look forward to us being together if we are apart, but not have to be together 24/7 in order to feel like a couple.

I tend to do things on the spur of the moment... I have a rather odd schedule at times, so I just "do" things when the mood strikes. I probably wouldn't fit in well with someone who has to have advanced "plans" for everything... sorry, just the way it is.

PS... I HAVE TATOO'S ETC.. IF THAT IS NOT YOUR "THING", THAT'S OK, I UNDERSTAND IT'S NOT FOR EVERYONE... but they are here to stay.

Anyway, before I write a book... I'm signing off. If you are interested, feel free to get in touch. Best of luck to you all in your searches...

I think it's always most important to meet other's with no preconceived notion of how the meeting has to "end up". Something "light" in an environment where conversation can happen easily.