I'm an attractive mature lady who loves life and strives to live it to it's fullest. There's so much we can say about ourselves, where does one start?

I love music, I think it's inbedded into my soul. Dancing, there are no words to describe the joy and freedom I feel when on a dance floor. There are times I think if everyone felt as I do when dancing, we should all dance our lives away.

I love reading, becoming engrossed in a good book. A teeth gripping, mind bending mystery would be the book of choice. I do, however; read almost anything that I come across for there's always some material that my brain welcomes.

Most people (naturally) base chemistry or attraction on physical appearance alone, and it doesn't go beyond that first look. I think the most attractive or sexy part of another person is thier brain and the abiltiy to use it properly. Looks only go so far. The brain - it's stunning if used properly.

I love gardening, although I'm somewhat embarressed to admit this past while I've ignored mine. And there really is no excuse for doing so. That being stated, I'll not say more on this issue.

I enjoy good company, listening to someone talking, watching them as they speak. Laughter, humour, good conversation....just enjoying another person is such a gift. Sharing time, getting to know each other. It's so simple, so easy if with the right person and so darn hard to come across isn't it?

I'm incredibly spontaneous and am not certain if it's a character flaw or a gift. Half the time I have no idea of where I'm going or what I'm doing....I just do it. Adventure is always around the next corner - waiting to be discovered.

I want to cook for someone, I want to pick up someone's socks and underwear off the floor. I want to buy a birthday card for someone special, I want to watch a movie, feeling easy and good inside me with that person near me. I want to dance with someone, feel them hold me as we move so easily together, So naturally that there's no effort required whatsoever. I want what's so difficult to achieve and yet I keep thinking it's there, I just need to find my way to it.

I do not want, and I stress this strongly, a relationship with a married man. Nor do I want one with someone already in a relationship and needing something on the side or with a man looking for what most would call a "Friend" or (better yet) a "Buddy". I have no intention whatsoever of becoming someone's play thing of the moment - something I can't stress enough. It's not just insulting to me, it's insulting to the person thinking it would be acceptable. It isn't. I've probably eliminated half the people on this site with what I've just stated. Contributed to my own demise as it were. So be it. Overall I'm very flexible and open minded, but when it comes to what I've just stated, there are no compromises whatsoever.

I'm the woman who plays no games. I'm one of those ladies that can best be described as what you see is what you get. A lot of fun, a good sense of humour, honest to a fault, has integrity, self respect and honour. I would very much like to meet someone with the same values, with similar traits in them.

Simply stated, I want to share the joys life has to offer with that someone special. Now, all I need to see is are you really out there, trying to find me.

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In Loving Memory Of Wayne - Sept. 22, 2006
He So Courageously Fought An Amazing Battle -
And Now Waits In A Better Place

That God Awful First Date! It's always reminded me of a job interview. You know what I mean, when you have maybe 30 seconds to make that first good impression. How on earth does one achive that I wonder? Between being nervous and hoping the person you're meeting is really what you've percived them to be, there's a good chance it's going to be an akward mess. Not all first dates are the dream you envision it to be.

Meeting someplace interesting but also quiet enough to converse is the best option. Enjoying a quiet drink, dinner...almost anywhere where one is not constantly interrupted and without cell phones ringing is a good start.

If the interest is there, you don't even need to ask - you feel it's presence. You feel it and know the other party feels it as well.