I am currently in the Military. Right now i am just trying to adjust to the new changes in my life! I am trying to get out there and smile a little more, maybe not take myself so serious while I am at it!!!! Is there something called true love and does it really exist? Is there a someone out there just waiting to to be found? Is she looking on this site as well? Chances are we all have been in love or what we thought was love and now find ourselves single again, always searching. What are we searching for? That one person that meets every criteria on our list, even though our list changes week by week, month by month and year by year as we change. It's funny some people know exactly who they want, must be this tall, color hair, eyes, age, must live within 20 miles of my house LOL! That's a funny one. If we go by this list we are down to a hand full of people and chances are not one would be our mate. Are we looking for someone with out baggage? (Right) Who doesn't have some type of carry on now a days? Honest, dependable, trust worthy and understanding? Are these the things we can say about ourselves in our past relationships? So I ask what is it that we are truly looking for? But I do know that I want to be happy! There are Rocky Roads on the way down the path, so live and love and hopefully our ship will come sailing in, without hitting the dock. LOL!

*update* I guess i need to say this upfront so I don't waste anyone's time. I have 3 kids and have been divorced twice.....if you are not OK with that, then please keep moving, so we don't get our hopes up. Also I love working out/being active, hopefully you will share the same interest.

For the first date i think dinner is always a nice way to go. It puts you both in a public setting, yet you can still talk and get to know more about each other!! Going for a walk along the river or at the park is nice as well!