I am a recently widowed man who has not been out there for a rather long time. Don't really have any hobbies anymore but, looking to change that. I am not interested in getting back into a serious relationship right now and don't know if I ever will but, I am looking to meet someone that I can talk to and spend some time with. I have a 13 year old daughter who is not looking for a new mom anytime soon either. Looking for companionship and fun, which is not code one nite stand or hook-up. I am the type of guy who is brutally aware of both my abilities and my faults and doesn't need to play around with people. I can be asked any question and you will receive an honest answer . So think twice before asking.

It has been so many years since I have been on a first date that I couldn't even begin to describe one. Simple and slow is usually best. Used to love playing pool and always found it a safe harmless way to get to know somebody. Not into many fancy things in my life or my dating, as I said, I am into the simple things.