I am a young 41 yo lookng for a sexy young fun woman for laughs, fun, love, and lots more. I am a Registered Architect in the State of New York, and I have my own firm. I am a product of all of my life experiences good and bad - as a man, father, soldier, architect, son, brother, friend, and lover. My father taught me perseverance."It is not the successes and good times that define a man's character, but rather the failures, hard times and tragedies that make the man".
I am a retired Special Operations Army Officer as well. Those exeperiences while tragic, brutal and hard at times have helped me to value life that much more, and given me a desire to help people. I would like to do more volunteer work when I get the time, but my daughter and business consume a lot of it. I am a very active father of a precious 10yo girl. Someday she will chose a man based on the character and traits of her father. I try very hard to give her a good role model. Becuase I have a gun and a shovel and I don't want any creeps or players showing up at the door when the time comes LOL. I have learned to keep my side of the street clean and above all to be honest with that special someone I hope to find. I believe in true love and I believe that God will provide the right woman at the right time. Maybe it can be youI am looking for a funny, witty, intelligent self-confident woman who is established in her life. If you have children - I am a father of one myself and enjoy them immensely. I want a woman who is comfortable playing Xbox with me, or scrabble, or just hanging on a cold and snowy night cuddled on the couch with a movie for a romantic evening. Also a woman who would enjoy an afternoon at the museum or an evening at the theatre or opera. A woman that is comfortable in jeans and a tee-shirt or high heels stockings (stockings - not panty hose LOL) and heels.
A woman with good body confidence is important to me. If I tell you you're beautiful I mean it. And I hate the question "do these jeans make me look fat". The sarcastic answer you will get is "no but your a*s does". LOL If I'm with you and happy it means I find you very attractive. I am a very sensual person, and would like the special woman I'm with to be as well, and to be adventurous in that area (I'm not talking midgets or horses here ladies) but you get the gist.
Above all I am looking for love. For that spark. I've had it before and believe I can find it again. When I love I love completely. NOT A STALKER ladies!! But I like to surprise you with flowers and romantic plans. I love love. I love the feeling in my heart when I'm in love. And that's what I'm looking for.

First meeting and a "First date" are to totally different things. First meeting would be for coffee or a drink or coffee. First date would happen after that (if we both agree. First date - I don't know dinner - somewhere we can talk and get to know eachother. It's less about where than it is about with who you are with. Then the "spark" would happen and we would both know at that very moment that we were meant to be together! or not. It's happened to me before so I still believe.