So I thought it was time to update the fishing lure, I mean profile!

I’ve met a few people on this site, and they are all really great women, but I’m not the kind of person who settles for just anything and I don’t think any women whose with me should have to settle either.

What I’ve learned in my dating experience is that I have a lot to offer someone, and that I expect a lot in return. I’m very successful in my career, which is important to me, and I need someone who is as driven and as passionate about things as I am. I work hard, and play harder (I love Salsa/Bachata/Cha Cha dancing)so if you’re not the type who enjoys experiencing all that life has to offer, you’re probably not the right lady for me. I enjoy the finer things in life (evenings at the symphony, fine dining, a trip to the spa), but I’m also just as comfortable having a beer with some friends and watching football on Sundays. I believe I bring a good mix to life as I have a variety of interests, keep in shape (both in mind and body), and rarely loose my cool or get too stressed out about anything. I believe life is a journey, and all interesting journeys have good and bad parts to the story, that’s what makes them interesting!

What I’m looking for in the women I date is someone who has their own life (job/hobbies/friends) but is happy to have a good overlap with my life that we can both enjoy. I have always encouraged my girlfriends to enjoy girl’s nights out just as I enjoy an evening with the boys as being together 24/7 is not something I’m after. Not to say I don’t enjoy the time spent together, I’m just over the clingy women that make me the center of their life (time apart makes the heart grow fonder I’ve found). You have to be able to make good decisions and have your own drive in life, as I’m the type of person that will feed on that to become a better person myself and hope that you will feed off my passion for life as well. I hope I don’t come off as being high maintenance or anything, as anyone who knows me would laugh at that statement, but I am confident and know what I want in life and the women I date.

If anything in here interests you, or you think you might be the type of person I’m interested in, please, ask away – I’ll answer pretty much anything.

I'm up for anything as I love experiencing new things. I like to be different (normal is never memorable) so something outside the norm, but the main requirement is something that allows us to be social as getting to know each other is kind of the point.