Im pretty relaxed kind of guy, leading a pretty relaxed kind of life.
I have two boys from my previous relationship who I see every second weekend and whenever else I can. They play a important part in my life but my time with them is limited but filled will fun, jokes and laughter and they bring me so much happieness.
I don't do the pub / nightlife scene anymore, replacing it with movies, DVD's or a BBQ.
I work in sales which means while at work I tend to be confident, social, out going with the gift of the gab, but in my own time I prefer the quiet times, relaxing, casual chats and movies.
Laughter and fun is a big part of who I am, I am serious when I need to be and have a very cheeky side and I also look at the positives in a situation and make the most of it.
They suggest to list your aspirations but to be honest there is only one that sticks out - to be the best dad I could ever be to my two boys and to always be there when they need me.
I believe in setting both short and long term goals and I have just found balance in my life again and are working towards several life changing goals (hence being on this site) as we speak.
Some of the traits I would like to find in a partner are honesty, loving, fun, caring laughter, joker, relaxed, balanced, great friend and understanding.
Im looking to find someone who will be my best friend, who I can talk about anything to and I can listen to all night long. Someone I can care for and will care for me. And ultimately someone who accepts my boys are part of the package as well.
So I guess in a wrap up, Im a single dad with shared custody, fun, work orientated, successful, has a balanced life and is looking for someone who is wanting something simaler to what I can offer.
If this sounds like something you are looking for then lets talk some more.

Start with a coffee somewhere one afternoon. If things go well and we are both interested I would suggest we continue on for dinner somewhere nice. After dinner, a walk along the beach, watching the sunset over th water and just spending that time talking and getting to know each other.