I spend alot of time playing music, guitars,bass, etc.. i like to game, Halo, etc.. i love being outdoors canoe'ng, on the beach, sitting, playing around camp fires. i enjoy meeting new people and totally believe the saying that strangers are friends we have'nt met yet. i have no problem walking up to campfires of people i have never met and making new friends. i enjoy many kinds of music from country to most of the new stuff. i very much love to dance and have fun. my sisters of mother earth, i am not a player. i am honest and real. life is too short and precious for all of us for me not to believe we are all equals. i am finding on pof that 9 out of 10 of you's all say honesty is way important to you all yet do not practice this. i also have been hurt several times yet i live to believe that everything happens for reasons. being optimistic as much as possible is the only way to keep on keep'n on. even with pof. i would very much appreciate any of you sisters that have an interest and have read this much, to please understand that you talk to me as though we are already friends, because i do not play games or intentionally mislead or hurt them. i just want us to get to know each other being real. i believe in you. i truly feel for all my mother earth sisters and their pains, but choosing to own those pians is a choice i do not understand. sadly it seems that 9&3/4 of you girls are here saying you seek " the one " but, i must wade through all your mistrust and past heart aches. so i have changed my stattes to other relationship. hopefully this way i will geta chance to meet new friends who may be a tad weary as me but who with optimism and positive energy step outside their norm and actually really are seeking in the unkown. we are meant to take those steps in life or we become stale and sad. if there are others like me who optimistically believe everything happens for reasons then please holler back. peace seeyah

first dates very much depend on the person i would be seeing. i would be happy to go out to dinner, or go out dancing, a walk along the beach, or somewhere for a coffee. comfort and interest is important too me and want to know and feel that my new friend feels the same.