How can a person describe what they're looking for in only a page. Everyone is looking for their soulmate. The person they want beside them for the rest of their life. Someone who is their best friend and who can be their lover, someone you can tell your day to and listen to theirs. A person you can share the good times and bad, I honestly believe you will know that person when you meet them, until then, you kiss a lot of frogs. The picture you see is only a a year old, so this is me. What you see is what you get, if you are looking for me to change, I doubt that will happen considering I've been me for 53 years. My son lives at home and is in college, we are best friends, and I tend to be there if he needs me. If you are looking for someone for a one night stand, I am probably not your person. I can be someone to talk to on a lonely night, I love to talk. You will find, I am up-front and honest in what I am looking for, and who and what I am. I don't have the time or energy for mind games, and would prefer not to have someone who plays them. I would love to find a man who wears his heart on his sleeve, and is looking for something serious. I have a wicked sense of humor, and can take a joke. I am an independent woman who doesn't need a man around, but would like to have one to show lots of love to.

A first date, they are kind of hard aren't they. You have so many expectations and you actually go into them hoping that this is the person. Sometimes its wow, and sometimes it oh well, it was nice. I think a good first date is somewhere where we could talk. You sit there and chat about likes and dislikes, and hopefully having a lot to say to someone and hearing the same from them.