i'm a city planner and urban designer. i play some instruments and used to dj. i have a couple thousand records collecting dust somewhere. i like art and design-y things. my passport is enormous. i've lived in HK for about 5-6 years, originally from the states. i feel most at home back in new york. i miss life in the states, family and friends, but cant see myself moving back for some reason. like to cook (with varying results). my chinese is not great but i'm trying. i love to be in nature but i love living in the city. your turn:

first meeting: chat a bit in a semi-public environment with easy escape routes. aka have coffee or a drink

OR

first date: quiet dinner and a drink, head home early in eager anticipation of the next, or figure out the best way to avoid each other in future