I am looking for a man who is the "pkg deal". Not perfect, but someone who is SMART, funny, with an ATTRACTIVE SMILE, in decent shape, makes a good living, and family oriented.. and most importantly, someone who feels a connection with me! Someone who has been down a few roads and knows exactly what he wants and doesn't want. I want a man who is a tad picky; as I am picky too. I want to meet someone who becomes my friend and then hopefully more, if there is a mutual interest and attraction on both parts. I can't tolerate a man who is ungiving. We all have careers and get busy, but I believe you'll make time if you want to. I need a guy that has "some" romance within him. I have had my heart broken and I have broken a heart or two.. it's a tough world, but my main goal is to find happiness. Happiness makes everything else work. I am not perfect and I have learned to love myself, now I want to love someone else too. I have always preferred to meet someone by chance, but I guess this route is okay too. I'm a classy gal and I prefer a man with some class as well. I like someone who likes music and knows when to dress nice too. I know you have to get to know someone first, before anything serious can come of it, and I know that all dates don't turn into something wonderful, BUT, I am not looking for a one night stand nor looking to be one girl of many, in a man's life. Is there a such thing as a man who is smart, good hearted, handsome, trusting, friendly, caring, and is compatible with ME?

A first date with someone I've never met would be pretty casual. I'd prefer a Happy Hour setting after work, so that we could relax and swap some stories. If that goes well and there is chemistry, etc.. then date #2 would be a nice dinner and we could go from there.