I'm a positive person and who doesn't let today's disappointments cast a shadow on tomorrow's dreams. I'm told I'm attractive (without having to bribe anyone), and have a Wii fit age of 33 (f you don't look at the screen too closely), apparently I have excellent balance (along a very wide beam) which might be why people say I'm easygoing, well life's too short to get stressed. :) I take care of my appearance and look after my health. I have a dry sense of humour, I'm always honest (brutally sometimes), you will always know where you stand with me and I'm intensely loyal to those in my life.

My favourite colour is purple, I like to dance in the rain and sing in my car, both very badly. :) I enjoy all types of social settings and love being around people, no matter how mad they are!

There are lots we learn as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down most likely will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So live like its your last day, love like you've never loved before, dance as if no-one is watching and most of all laugh because its so infectious.

I have two boys who keep me sane and are very important to me, I'm a medical secretary and also a life coach. Work as a mentor for a charity when I can as I think its important to give something back for my life.

Still looking for that elusive equal, I know he's out there somewhere. Not looking for marriage or a one night stand, but something fun and sustainable, with someone who knows how to to keep the passion and excitement alive in a relationship. So if you think you fit the bill, don't use txt spk and can string more than one sentence together, drop me a line :)

Be proactive my mate says, message a few guys. So I tried that, but when all you get is unread/undeleted or read/deleted you kind of lose the will to be proactive! So not to be defeated I've devised my own system. If I add you as a favourite, it means I'm interested, if you're interested back you need to message me. If you look at my profile and don't message, I will delete you from my favs and not waste your time any longer

I enjoy time with friends and interesting people doing the usual stuff, but also open to trying new things. Las Vegas is good fun, but I guess that's a bit far for a night out?