Hey there,yep, here I am.on a site, I never thought I'd be...I'm newly single and I'm so happy that I didn't "Settle"." A failure is not a denial ; just a delay!"

Hum mm.where to start.Well, I'm the oldest of eight children.the firstborn:).you know what they say about us;)HA! My family is very important to me, and I honestly don't know what I'd do without them...however; I'm ready to spread my wings and explore the world that they've helped prepare me for..

I was born and raised in South and still live in "Sweet Home Alabama".So, I guess you could say, I'm a true Southern Belle.I was raised to respect my elders and to say " Yes Ma'am " and "No Sir", "Thank You" and "You're Welcome".and want someone with the same values, morals.

I love all genres of music.I'm spontaneous at times ( thanks mom, a quality I definitely inherited from you, but one that I'm grateful to have.It did give us a life filled with adventure, I have to say:)

I love sunshine and thunderstorms, love to lay on a blanket and stargaze. I love to curl up and watch a good romantic love story..yep, imagine that.Me, a female, loves a great chic flick..lol:):) I love strawberries, and hate watermelon.(some swear, I'm not from the south when they hear that.lol.

I'd pick chicken over steak, and Salmon over both:) I love to laugh and love to be around people who do. I'm very ambitious and know what I want and am looking for someone with the same zest for life that I have.I want someone that will love me, stand with me, beside me, and support and believe in me, as I strive to accomplish my hopes and dreams.as I will do the same for them.

I'm always up for a good road trip with the girls.seeing new places and meeting new faces:):) I Still believe in God above, and believe he's still in the Miracle making business, and it's very important to me to find someone that shares in my beliefs..

I could go on and on I suppose..but I think if you want to know more about me, and who I am.. my hopes and dreams, then I dare you to type.lol.maybe then, I'll learn more about you, your hopes and dreams.who knows.we may be each others.

Until then..
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired. ----Robert Frost

Hum mm.Let me think. :) For a first date I prefer to go out and go bowling, fishing, a walk on the beach,a walk in the park, dinner, something that's interacting. Somewhere where conversation can strike up and you can get to know the other person. Going to the movies for a first date isn't something that I'm not interested in. You can't get to know someone staring at a movie screen for a couple of hours...it's better when personality comes out and you get to know each other :)


Somethings that I am looking' for:
1.Honesty-you are naturally honest and use your honesty to full advantage.
2.Sense of humor-A good sense of humor is amazingly attractive
3.Eye contact-single most important factor in your success
4.Smiles-one of the single important factors in your success
5.Personality-a man who knows what he wants to do,outgoing,and fun
6.Confidence-confident men who are assertive , positive and don't dither .
7.Maturity-So it usually pays to act pretty sensibly when you're with girls
8.Sensitivity-girls want their men to act like men but try and mix being a man with being caring and sensitive
9.Looks-Last on the list.If you fit everything above..Looks doesn't matter..Deep down a girl can't care for a guy unless, he cares for her too.