Some of the likes:
-dark hair
-sexy eyes
-bald
-tattoos
-quick witted

Do not contact me if:
-you only have a close up head shot or your pics are a few years old and do not resemble truly how you look today
-you are looking for a booty call or FWB
-are using any kind of drugs (marijuana is a drug) or drink a lot
-if you are too clingy (you know if you are-spending every single second together and letting me know about every single move you make - IS clingy.I don't wanna be joined at hip - have your own interests.
-if you are too cheezy especially if it's too soon.Mami,Boo and similars are nothing but annoyance to me especially when used to avoid answering the question straight up.
-if you do not have a profession,car and place of your own( i am not 18 anymore just being cute is not enough)
-if you have more than 2 baby mamas
-if you don't think that personal hygiene is something important(that includes shaving too - yes)
-if you are smaller/shorter than me(for God sakes do not say you are 5'10"-5'11" and then be the same height as I am.
-if you can't spell to save your life(wuz up,haveing or similars) - If i am someone from another country with self taught English and can speak the language that is native to you better- i would be embarrassed if I was you honestly.
-if you are ghetto or hillbilly
-if you expect me to give up the personal info about myself or my job in the first couple of messages
-if you look like a big whale(guys make fun of female BBWs all the time when they misrepresent themselves as curvy but really big guys tend to do the same thing.I like men who are thick if their weight is evenly distributed.Skinny arms and legs with big belly hanging over is not evenly.
-If you prefer your women blonde ad petite.I'm neither one.
-If you tend to get along better with quiet,submissive females.Again,not me...
-If you need me to hold your hand,guide you through life and think for you.I could do it - just don't want to.

-If all this above scared you off...lol...I sound so negative don't I???






Well, to put it euphemistically, I am just a little mistrustful of people. I have no illusions about human nature, and I've always had an uncanny knack of perceiving what other people don't wish to be known. From early childhood, I could see through hypocrisy and sham. But I can't always formulate these perceptions. Often is more like strong, intuitive gut reactions to people, and they're usually accurate. The trouble is that I smell brimstone just about everywhere. I am privy to one of the most profound and disturbing secrets of human nature: all individuals carry a dark side within them. I can't afford to be gullibly romantic because I know perfectly well that, alongside our human nobility, we are also animals, and not very attractive ones at that. No wonder I sometimes seem deeply cynical. One of my great challenges is to learn tolerance. I've got compassion in abundance, and the deepest sympathy for pain and loneliness,but I can't abide laziness and weakness. I believe deeply that, no matter how bad the mess, every human being can do something about it. I am pretty adept at doing that myself. What I sometimes fail to realize is that people are made differently, and not everyone has my self-honesty and strength. And my pride, which can be downright Luciferian, keeps me from recognizing that sometimes it's necessary, and even courageous, to yield. Take all that insight and sensitivity, add a liberal dash of fierce pride and a determination to carve my own path through life, throw in a dose of general mistrust of other people, and you don't exactly come up with a "laid back" person. I commit myself passionately to whatever I do, with heart, mind, body and soul. So,don't expect all sweetness and light. Some very wise people have said that life is made up of both light and dark, and only a fool believes it to be otherwise. And I am no fool. ..

The Scorpio rising female is a mystery, to herself and to men. Sexuality is her most potent force and she attracts men in every crowd. She knows what she wants, and any man she becomes interested in will know it is he. She isn't afraid to approach a man either as a business partner or for a relationship of a more intimate nature. This woman is a mind reader but she won't always let her partner know this...sometimes it's better to keep this knowledge to herself as a secret weapon. Passion is something a relationship with a Scorpio rising will never lack--be it as a screaming match or an all night party for two. She needs romance in the form of sensual fabrics, oils, and scents. She, like her male counterpart, expects any commitment to last forever and she will work very hard to accomplish this. Scorpio rising can be very dominating and smothering--when she comes across in this manner it is a sure sign that she needs attention and reassurance. She will not tolerate an unfaithful partner and she will quickly make a plan of revenge, even if her plan doesn't extend beyond removing her cheating mate from her presence forever. Indeed, that is likely the worst fate, for once a man is in love with a Scorpio, he will never forget her. Their relationship may dissolve into a love/hate type of connection and he may never see her again, but he will long remember the passionate nights they spent together in front of the fireplace, or the other nights he spent tied to the bedpost. He will be very hard pressed to find that combination of emotional faithfulness and sexual intensity again... unless he becomes involved with another Scorpio type.