well the fun part, i'm honest have very strong morales i like to show affection and be shown affection back, a bit of a romantic, a family man i have 3 kids 2 of which are on there own, i like helping others when i can, can be stubborn but not too often, i definately have a sence of humor, i'm shy til i get to know someone

well that depends on the situation if its with someone i know then i would want to put some planning into based on there interest like maybe a nice restruarant with a good atmospere, after dinner maybe a carrage ride in a horse drawn buggy, then a nice strole on a moon lit night, on a blind date i would bring flowers meet somewhere with people around so she would feel comfortable and quit enough where we could talk and get to know each other