I'm easy-going, independent, out-going (shy at first), intelligent, spontaneous and stubborn!!! I have one son who is a senior at the University of Iowa and I believe he is the most amazing person I have ever known. I love spending lazy evenings at home but am also known for my need to "get out of the house" and spend an enjoyable, sometimes crazy, time with friends. I enjoy anything from dinner in a casual restaurant to hotdogs over the campfire, but probably prefer the latter. Very low maintenance. I live life one day at a time...do not live by a schedule. Looking for a sincere, honest man who can understand and accept a very independent woman....but who also understands that sometimes that independence might just need a strong hand to hold. Do not care for "game" players, shallowness, arogance, or for those who can only love with conditions.

First date? Let's keep it very casual and not call it a "date".