Hi! My name is Julie. I am a 39 year old widow. I have three children. Two grown daughters 19 and 18 and a son 14 who lives at home . My interests include karaoke, movies, rollercoasters, music of all kinds, and writing poetry. I am looking for an HONEST SINGLE man between the ages of 30-50 to date and get to know. I am a very ambitious and independent woman who likes the same in a man. I have a very good sense of humor and I enjoy being around others who do as well. I enjoy spontaneity in my friends. If you are shallow, egotistical, arrogant , self-important , or think you are God's gift to women, do us both a HUGE favor and just pass me by!!!!! Just because you are extremely handsome does NOT make you better than anyone else! Hey, you're still single like the rest of us RIGHT???? Also, I don't care HOW much money you make. I have my own! And yes, I AM going to talk to more than one man on here until I find THE ONE that I am searching for! If you have a problem with that,then press on!!! That's why they call it fishing! You keep fishing and may have to throw some back until you find that ONE fish! I am 5'3 thick, with a 38c chest, thick thighs, "ghetto booty", green eyes, long dark naturally curly hair, beauty mark by my right eye and one on my chin. This is a very TRUE and HONEST description of me.Please do not contact me if you are just looking for a trophy chick to look good on the back of your bike. I love to ride, but for the right reasons! I realize that everyone has a type that they like, so if I am not for you, move on!

The best poem I have written thus far and a motto every girl should live by!

" Social Expectations "

Will you search the depths of my inner being

To discover who I truly am?

The truly unique and beautiful heart

That needs no glitz or glam

Because a superficial plastic girl

Just isn't who I am

I do not have to hide behind

What others expect me to be

Because you're not worthy of my friendship

If you can't like me for me

So many cliches and stereotypes

A girl's supposed to live up to these days

But if you cannot accept me now

Then I'll just go on with my day

For the strength that lies within me

No supermodel could ever touch

And you'll never meet another girl

Who can spellbind you this much

So continue your quest if you must

For that perfect plastic doll

And when you tire of the superficial fakes

I'll be the first girl that you caLL

JBS '09


* WARNING: THIS POEM IS COPYWRITTEN IN MY NAME AND FORGERY IS A CRIME!*

My idea of a good first date would be a nice dinner at a good restaurant, followed by a nice walk in a scenic park where we could talk one on one and really get to know each other. It would be some place quiet and tranquil with a nice scenic view.