To describe yourself in written form is always hard, because how I perceive myself is not necessarily how you will perceive me. So a casual chat over coffee or tea usually works to get to know what a person is all about or even a few emails back and forth.

What I am really looking for is that coffee meeting where conversations flows, nervous levels drop, eyes look kind and that electricity of two people attracted occurs. Too much to ask? Well a girl can hope.

My work life is very busy and I have great kids that live with me. Finding someone that can relate to that busy lifestyle is important. If I have to wait to find someone great for me I will, but not having a partner makes me feel off balance and I miss that partnership feeling.

Sometimes I find that single men my age are running scared from past dates with ladies that were not all together there. That’s not an issue with me; I am mentally healthy and open & honest. On that note 'God' and my faith play an important part in my life and choices; however, my life does not revolve around my church.

For the rest of my story you will have to buy the book….just kidding….just ask:)

First meetings are always best for me if its just over a coffee or tea. Gives us both a chance to see if there is interest.

First dates ideally take place where we can chat and get to know each other, dinner and a walk or game of mini golf, pool or bowling. No pressure, lifes too short:)