I,m just me.And try to be the best me I can.Ive been divorced for 8 years now.I have 3 children that live with me full time,2 are mine by blood 1 is soon to be mine by adoption.I work a full time job in the redi mix industry and own my own house painting company also.So yes I work alot.I find it very difficult to meet people and thought why not try the online thing(cant believe I'm doing this) but oh well.I enjoy doing many different things,fairs festivals fishing boating camping just to name a few.I like a few different types of music as long as I can understand what there saying and the song has more then 5 words in it.I have been told I am very good with my hands and can fix most anything.I also enjoy just walking and dinning out.

I am not a huge fan on the whole bar scene but do enjoy shooting pool and only go out a few times a year when there is a birthday party or something.I like the back yard parties much more.Or the get together at the park or beach for the BB-Q's
I think one of the most important abilities someone has is being able to make someone laugh.My sense of humor is pretty quick witted and sometimes sarcastic.But almost always off the wall.Which fare warning can appear at any given moment.And even did the whole pudding wrestling thing once(lost a bet) and yes had to wear the bikini..Wasn'T a pretty picture I tell ya.

I think honesty is a virtue most people know nothing of lately.
I also believe in making the women I'm with,,weather it be casual or serious.Feel like there the only women out there and deserves all my attention.I do know the meaning of the word chivalry,and yes I do use it.

As for my aspirations: I just want to be happy,laugh and find a women that wants to be equal

As for what my ideal first date would be.That's a rough one.I guess I would first try to get some insight as to what the women I'm talking to says and lets out.But for me It would be a nice casual dinner in a non crowded place,where there would be plenty of conversation.Followed by a walk on the beach where we could build and sit by a bonfire for more conversation as we watched the sunset.And basically just see where things go..No pun intended.I'm sorry for the lousy picture but will try to get some better ones as soon as I can