If you are looking for someone Classy,this would be me...

I am very well read,quite an eclectic library of genres in Authors.

Sports:NBA:(Lakers)Magic.. Football: Steelers, My University's team.. GOOO CAINES!!! GO YANKEES,WE WON THE PENNANT!!Boxing,MMA/UFC

I'm well educated and work in the Health care Profession,Therapist/Nurse/Caregiver/spousal abuse counselor and rape criiss counselor In the Spring,going back to school for Sports Medicine and Mortuary Science,I work to improve the Mental Health of our returning Men and Women,Military Personnel and Wounded Warriors with PTSD & I thank God everyday,that we are The Land of the Free and Home of the Brave...

I am in this to meet my Best Friend,The person that I can't live without,my muse my inspiration.And,through this POF process,I have found some really,down to earth guys,real men not all about the physical,I have a brain :KNUCKLE HEAD! I am constantly,thirsting for knowledge and hunger for learning new things "SUCH AS PATIENCE"(J)

My uniqueness:is my bigger then life,gregarious personality,my ability to adept to any situation.My nurturing,loving spirit.And an infectious smile that lights up a room.And,laughing is key with me..

Music diverse,I love R&B,Classical and old Rock, Pink Floyd,Moody Blues,Sade, Enigma..Latin Music and love to dance,especially slow or salsa and merengue.

I am looking so forward to meeting my someone special,In the words of Julia Roberts in Pretty Women "I almost Peed my Pants"(the opera scene)

A man who is willing to open his true self as I will,to look to the inside not the outside physical,"that's just an extra bonus.Please do the same for me,Beauty is only skin deep mine is to my Soul!

I was a West Point Sweetheart,and I want to say to all the returning Iraq and Afghanistan Vets,ON POF: if you are scarred on the outside,please,don't be self-conscious,your outside scars,THEY are a sign of your BRAVERY and HEROISM,A women whom comes from her heart will feel that! I know what "you" see in the mirror,but there is a special women who looks past the aesthetics of a man to the deepest part of him,that he has to share:His,HEART,and eventually his soul.

MY father was a Doctor,we grew up over our practice so,I had a working at home mom,with traditional values,whom instilled strong morals,scruples and values in her children.

"Learn To Hear,by Seeing,Feel Without Touching,Speak With Knowledge,Hunger With Wonderment.

P.S. I can transfer to any state,with the work I do,which is why I have 175 miles or more,the wider the realm,the better the search, so if there is a connection,I'm there..Plane,train or automobiles.

P.S.S 11-25-09 If you have read my pro,and are genuinely interested in getting to know all my layers and not just the physical,fine,otherwise move on...I forgot to say if you have ink,motorcycles,like outdoorsy activities,I; there

EVERY ONE HAVE A HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

OK,SO my DATE IS A PERFECT DATE! Not a first date.. A moonlight walk to an area of Nature,where we could lay out a blanket,open a nice Pinot Grigio bottle of Cabernet,a Merlot,some prosciutto,with french baguettes,cheese of your liking,Star Gaze,"THE SKY IS GOD'S CANVAS AND HIS ARTWORK,IS A SIGHT TO BEHOLD" maybe we'll see a shooting star,enjoying getting to know one another with no outside distractions,I like looking into a man's eye's as they are the mirrors to OUR soul and one can tell a lot from someones eyes.Toasting our wine glasses:here's to the Anticipation of Something Wonderful About To Happen...(unless there's no chemistry,we'll know)Or,an evening of warm Sake and Sushi,if you don't like Sushi they do have cooked food to,But I could literally eat Sushi every day and be a happy "CLAM" Of course I answered as it was asked,what is you idea of a great 1st date, and since I am an OOTB thinker,I was being creative,but if getting a cup of coffee or a glass of wine,is your safe boundary and will make you happy,I'll be up for it. I see the men like to play it safe.(very public places) I like Explorers and Adventurers. "So,Yo,Dude Whada You Wanna Do,HAH!"