As of November 23rd, 2009 this profile has been "UPDATED"

Before futher reading my profile....understand this.....
This profile contains very personal information about me as it pertains to my sexual habits. (NO I AM NOT GAY!!!!) I have been single all my life and I have no children....that I know of. I enjoy sex I love sex...I HAVE BEEN A SWINGER MOST OF MY ADULT LIFE BOTH AS A SINGLE AND AS THE MALE HALF OF A COUPLE. 99.9999 percent of females in my age group and those females who might be reading this know what "swinging" is. IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE THAT....PLEASE DO NOT READ ANY FUTHER. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME AND PLEASE DONT CHASTIZE ME FOR BEING IN A LIFESTYLE THAT YOU CANT OR DON'T WANT TO UNDERSTAND.....

Thank you,

Now if you got this far.....read on.......


I am seeking a VERY SPECIAL woman between the ages of 37 and 63
With that being said.......PLEASE READ ON......

I have been in the "swinging lifestyle for over 35 years both as a single and with a partner that I have "lost" after 25 years.

I am looking for a single,divorced, or widowed unattached female who.....
IS NOT MARRIED,OR ATTACHED IN ANY WAY,DOES NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND, IS NOT INVOLVED IN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP, IN OTHER WORDS, TOTALY FREE. However,
if you're in a "bi-sexual" relationship with another woman thats ok.

Someone who
knows, or has been involved, in the swinging lifestyle. SWINGING IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE A COUPLE BASED ACTIVITY. BUT I HAVE A THING FOR "WATCHING" AND I LIKE TO WATCH MY PARTNER WITH OTHER MEN. I am NOT and I mean NOT looking for a hooker, street walker, pro, call-girl, professional web girl, drug-crack user etc. But a totaly single female who knows and understands the swinging lifestyle. Mabee you are divorced or widowed, or you were in a long term relationship that has ended, and were in the swinging lifestyle with your partner. I would love to meet you. However I am just tired of being with and or meeting women who are not taking care of themselves or do not care about themselves. THIS MEANS SQUEAKY CLEAN, HEIGHT-WEIGHT PROPORTIONATE, GAINFULLY EMPLOYED, AND, I WOULD PREFIR 5'6" or taller. I also PREFIR BLONDS BUT AM OPEN TO ANY. YOUR FACIAL LOOKS ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT AS YOUR BODY STYLE, HEALTH AND HYGENE. I am 61 years old my health is good and in 6 months I am goung to RETIRE AND THEN, I AM MOVING TO LAS VEGAS. Want to come along??? I currently am overweight. 285lbs. i AM ON A REGIMENTED DIET, AND EXERCISE PROGRAM. I originally weighed 325lbs. (THERE ARE NO "OVERWEIGHT" PEOPLE IN LAS VEGAS.) So far I've lost 40bs. I am currently employed and have been for 35+ years. Thanks for reading
Bob

A side note to this.....VIAGARA is the best drug out there and....It WORKS

My "comfort zone" for traveling is a 100 mile radius of Buffalo. Thats Buffalo to Rochester, Buffalo to Erie Pa.,Buffalo to Olean, Buffalo to Toronto Ca.

My Ideal Person: My ideal match would be...

1) a single unattached female between 37-63 years old who
dosen't have a problem with "INTERRACIAL"
swinging. (BEING WITH A BLACK GUY)
WHILE I JUST WATCH.
THIS IS SOMTHING THAT I REALLY ENJOY!!!!!
2) height-weight proportionate,
3) I'm tired of dating women who do
not take care of themselves or
care about thmselves.
4 ) at least 5' 6" tall.
5) can wear a mini skirt with heels
and nylons and look good.
6) knows how to use makeup.
7) I love blonds but am open to all.
a divorced or widowed woman who
has been in the swinging lifestyle
or has knowledge of the swinging lifestyle
and is ok with it.
A female that can handle "oral sex" and can "swallow"
a female that can handle a swinging interracial encounter and dosent mind me and or someone else just watching the action.
A women who is ok with visiting and or participating in activities in xxx theaters and xxx bookstores.

I know that there is much more to a
relationship than what I've posted
here. I'm 61 years old, I should
know. But, the information that I
have given here is a true and honest
view of somthing that I truly enjoy.
I do think that it is best to get a
controversial idea out in the open
right away so as not to waste your
time if you are one who is not open
to these ideas. Even though we might
have beeen compatable in other areas.

Thanks for reading,
bob

ps.....This has nothing to do with the profile above.....but....IF YOU ARE A FORMER EMPLOYEE OF ADELPHIA OR WERE WORKING FOR ADELPHIA WHEN THEY COLLAPASED INTO BANKRUPTCY IN 2002 AND WERE "DISSMISSED" WHEN NEW MANAGEMENT TOOK OVER OR WHEN TIME WARNER TOOK OVER AND THEN WERE DISMISSED, I WOULD LIKE TO CHAT WITH YOU......

First Date:
A no strings attached meeting at a "family restraunt" Where we can talk discreetly and in privite. I would lay all my cards on the table. and then it would be up to you whether to see me again or not. a go or no go decision on your part. I will respect your decision.