Hi, (QUICK UPDATE: I'm the guy on the right)

Thanks for visiting my profile :)

Is it just me or do you sometimes wonder what makes a person decide to seek friendship/companionship/whatever else you're looking for ONLINE?

And then you're just SURE the person on the end is going to tell every little "white tale" about how wonderful they are, what they do from day to day, how "terrible" the other person they dated was, how its always the other person's fault why things didn't work out, BLAH...BLAH...BLAH.

Sometimes I'm sure the above IS the case, then again, I'm sure there ARE times when the person on other end is truly genuine and even more wonderful a person if and when you finally get to meet them.

So, what brings us here?

Well, I'll say most times (in my opinion) ... Curiosity!

We're generally curious creatures (human beings).

We're curious about what's on the other side.

Life is almost an endless quest of "If only..."

Oh if only you had a guy that treated you like a princess - how much better life would be...

Oh if only you had a guy that appreciated you more...say "Thank you" for the things you've put in so much effort to make him happy - how wonderful would life be...

Oh if only you had a guy that wouldn't always want to hang out with his buddies all the time - how happier you would be...

If only you had a guy that wasn't angry and negative all the time - what a breath of fresh air that would be...

Am I reading your mind? :)

Nope! I'm not done yet...

How about if only he were more motivated, ambitious and demanded more out of life - how much more secure you would feel...

If only he was serious having a long term companionship and treated it like its the only relationship that mattered most - how much more comforting that would be...

If only you had a guy that doesn't have all kinds of women calling him, especially late at nights - WOW! That would be such a relief!

If only he was interested in starting a family, loves children and is committed to providing a stable and comfortable family for them - Oh how comforting again that definitely be...

If only he accepted you "Just As You Are"...Not comparing you to another nor complaining about how some other woman is better in one way or another - what a relief that would be and much more self-confidence that would instill in you.

If only he liked to "talk"...Talk about things bothering you and how to improve. Talk about your relationship and how you both can make it better. Talk about your day, your concerns, talk about what makes you happy, sad, angry or disappointed. Just talk... But with love and a heart to further strengthen the relationship...WOW! Oh that would just be enough for you!

But that's not all...

If only he believed in you...what you can and will accomplish...encourage you to achieve your goals...be the voice of inspiration, when everyone else is a naysayer - Oh how much sooner you reach for the stars!

If only it was you and ONLY YOU that his eyes adored, his heart couldn't resist, and and EVERY SINGLE fiber in him desired to love!

Oh how much you would...

...Right now, you're so anxious to meet a guy that although not perfect, but so darn close to all of the above, because...

You would DEFINITELY prove to him - with your actions - in every waking moment of everyday, that he made the right choice...

The right choice in choosing you.

Why you?

Because you're worth it! And CAN & WILL treat him and the relationship like the very best of friendship & companionship YOU'VE BOTH always dreamed of.

If only...

On a first date, I'll like us to chat just about anything over coffee/hot chocolate/ice cream/dinner.

Funny enough, unlike most people online, I don't really make it a big deal to see your picture.

I'm much more interested in the person (inside), than the physical cover that masks the true "You".

Sure, you may very well be quite an attractive young lady outside also, but its your heart of gold glowing from the inside that will continue to glitter...
when you're asleep,
when you're awake,
when you have no make up on,
when you're stressed,
when you're happy and
most especially whenever I gaze in your eyes and see what an amazing heart you have...