I don’t define myself by likes and dislikes. I do have some preferences, but find pleasure in letting life unfold as I go. If something interests me, I do it and if I like it. I do it again. If I haven’t done it, then I most definitely want to try it.

I do like getting dressed up with my high-heels for fine dining and dancing thereafter. As well as, relaxing in my pajamas, watching movies cuddled up on the couch. Thing is…I want to be able to experience life with a special someone who enjoys participating in a myriad of activities together.

My view is we can find things that interest us both and support each other in what interests us individually. He should be as comfortable in a relationship as I am and enjoy doing things with one another no matter what it is. Afterall, why be together if you are doing everything separately. What is the point in being with someone? Obviously, I am mature enough to understand we all need a certain degree of “space,” but if there is more “space” than not…then, best to stay single with no attachment and endlessly date. To each their own I suppose, but I prefer to be with my man rather than not. I’m a coupler.

He needs to be extremely affectionate, passionate, love kissing, being close and doesn’t mind respectful displays of public affection with the person he loves. He should be self-confident without pomp and circumstance. One who is comfortable in whatever situation he may find himself. I am drawn to those who are social and outgoing I suppose because I am, but my man needn’t ever worry or have doubt…I am quite loyal and protective of my relationship.

I do not deal well with men who have excessive hang-ups as I am warm, high-spirited, culturally aware and am most interested in being with someone who is thought provoking and challenging! I want a partner who is not a stickler. A good communicator is very important. I love a good discussion or dare say…even a courteous, mildly-heated debate regarding any topic! Someone who is a thinker and has opinions and can express themselves effectively and agree to disagree is a very attractive individual to me.