11/16 Christmas is coming..... Where do you draw the line between naughty & nice? I know this year I'm not getting a lump of coal. Finding you under my tree would be nice.

11/10 I'll be celebrating Thanksgiving in Denver this year. I'm wondering if turkey taste any different at 5280' above sea level. It's all good.... I'll be doing the cooking. From the turkey all the way too spooning the whipped cream on the homemade apple pie. I love this time of the year.....

11/4
Ahh....there's a familiar song playing at the grocery store as we stroll down the vegetable aisle. Would you have this dance with me?

11/1
Got a certified letter in the mail today from the Maury show. Rod...... You are not the father.

10/23
Nothing like spending hard earned money on a plane ticket and hotel and flying over 300 miles or to hop into your car all dressed and hungry for a delicious dinner in what may be the end of you search for that one person.....so you thought. The person you had been talking to and visualizing from there two year old photo seems to look a weeeeee bit different. And I don't me a new haircut. Sorry.... Game over.....Remember the rules of a relationship? Rule #1: Honesty Rule #2 (Refer to rule #1) I live in the present, therefore you should too.

10/22
It was once said and then said often that "Beauty is only skin deep". Look past the exterior.... Look deeply inside.... It is there you will find the real meaning of beauty. It is up to you to nurture it... To acknowledge it... To cherish it... And most of all, to remind her of it.

10/20
Funny how some people treat POF like their standing in line at a buffet with their grocery list in hand. I understand that we all have preferences but c'mon..... some people are just way to damn picky. The word jaded comes to mind. I'd suggest a revised list or you just may be searching for "your" Mr. Right for a very long time.


10/15
If you're going to stop bye and "read" my profile please take time out to drop an email at least just to say hello. I mean you DID check out my profile for a reason. Believe me....an email isn't an invitation for marriage. You're not afraid I'll write back are you? I do glance at several profiles. If I do read yours and find that it sparked my curiosity I will definitely write to you. Even if it's just to say those shoes you're wearing look great......


10/11
Fall is here..... Cool crisp evening air... The golden foliage surrounding you... The smell of wood burning in the fireplace... Walking arm in arm destination unknown... Long sleeves and turtlenecks embracing the cold..........
I'm waiting.....

9/16
The sound of distant thunder of what one would expect a romantic rain turned in to a massive hail storm. All of my plants were destroyed. Sounds like some relationships...... The thought that these plants will once again grow............ relationships as well will flower.


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9/12
Another Saturday night just me and my cookies & cream..... The good thing about ice cream is that it won't cheat on you... Has no trust issues... One can always depend on it... and most of all... It satisfies...

8/30
Saying so long to POF........

8/13
Did you get your free sample of the Trojan Ecstasy? I got mine..... OMG...I am so sick of that add popping up every time I open POF. Who's ingenious idea was it to post a condom ad on a dating site. Are people still actually out there experiencing the pleasures of one on one body contact? Who knew....... Now an ad for a free background check and a psycho analysis would definitely come in handy. I'm sure we would all could go for that.


8/11
I recently change my profile to allow for profiles without a photo to contact me. Granted, I will read the kind words sent however I will probably not reply without a pic. Some think that they don't need a photo because they rely on the words they wrote. Think about it....(those without a photo) What made you stop by and READ my profile? I'm definitely not superficial and will not judge anyone because of what they look like. But come on.....physical attraction is part of the relationship process.

8/11
Please explain to me why those looking for "long term" limit who can contact them because they live outside their 75 mile comfort circle? It makes me feel that too many people are looking more for the "right now" and not "long term". Tell me....If you're looking for that special someone and only limit your possible opportunities to 75 miles,,,,are you really confident that he'll be just around the corner? The world is a big playground, there's more to life beyond your front yard.

8/10

Don't think I'm using the right bait. I keep having to throw quite a few back.....


7/29
No, I don't live within 75 miles of you. Did you notice that I checked "I do own a car"? And yes it runs. I have my on jet also. Although I share it with a few thousand other people daily, however the peanuts they serve are absolutely fabulous.

7/26
I'm willing to travel if we feel there's a connection worth pursuing. Are you? And please don't string me along while you're lining up your selection and waiting for Mr. Right to send you that email you've been longing for. I'm not here to waste your time and definitely not waste mine.
With that said...... Read on.....

Better a memory than a wish....Better a moment that did exist...... Let's see..... I'm a photographer, a cook, a musician, a handyman, a lover, a soft ear with a firm shoulder, a comedian, a giver, a son, a brother and most of all...A father to three of God's greatest gifts' to me. Now that I'm all alone in this big house.... what to do? I've been very busy with my photography business Snap Shotz Photography. In my spare time I love to cook and bake or be out in the garage building something. I'm always trying out some new recipe whether it's for dinner or a new recipe to improve my life. If I ever send you and invitation for dinner you better take me up on it. Meals come with dessert and wine. Sometimes music and candle light. Funny...I was so surprised that some of the women I have met said that no man has ever made dinner for them. I don't mean hamburger helper either..... I've met some wonderful and some not so wonderful people over the years. The bottom line is I've met some people. I've learned a lot from them and I'm thankful for them to cross my path. I do hope I find that someone that curbs my appetite...instills sleepless nights...fills my day with dreaming....and never tires with the sound of her name as it whispers repedidly across my lips. I know she's out there....



I'm not opposed to a long distance relationship if you're willing to put forth the effort. After all..... the one you may be looking for can't be in your backyard or you wouldn't be

Pray she doesn't have an adams apple.......


First dates are simple.... I think most people get to nervous because they have expectations of how they should act. I'm always down for a cup or three of coffee in a relaxed enviornment. You can learn a lot from a person from simple conversations. My expectations on a first date is to be myself. And for the person I meet to just be the person they are. One doesn't want to be asking themselves later..."what happen to that person I met?" I do believe one should go the extra step to be presentable but I'm more comfortable getting to know the "real" you. If you're not one to get all dressed up normally then put on those comfortable sweats and let's go from there. Unless we're heading out to the Plaza for fabulous play. After all....a strong foundation of a friendship can lead to the solid foundation that any relationship needs. Just one more note.... Don't let anyone have you believing that a relationship is 50/50. Would you only want 50% from your partner? It must be a minimum of 100% from each of us. That ol' saying "It's better to give than to receive"..... It's not just for shiny presents with cute little bows. Meet me on the River Walk in San Antonio for dinner.... Meet me at Six Flags and spend the day riding roller coasters... Pack a lunch and lets enjoy a great picnic overlooking the Grand Canyon...