I am not into head games and can be brutally honest at times. Although it's not what I'm looking for... so please don't mistake it...but there is something to be said about the men who ask for intimate encounters or *other* relationships...at least they are honest in what they want and don't hide behind the pretense of I'm a *nice* guy. Not judging all of you..I'm sure there are some guys around. I would like someone to be into me and not solely wanting the *IN*to me! I go for what the person has on the INSIDE and not the outer shell...you should try it... Ok.. Let me make this easier for you.. I do NOT golf or hit the gym 5 times a week. I AM overweight (but working on it) so please don't ask...how many is a few extra pounds.. I am NOT a sprinter or runner but could probably out walk you.. not a BIKER..skier..fisherwoman...snorkler..mountain climber..deep sea diver..nor do I wish to skydive out of a plane! I do not have 3 cats or dogs.. There should be no picture ...period.. but If a close up is sooo important to you then I will send via email...but what IS it you're looking for exactly?? Here's an idea...how about trying to know the actual PERSON?? Take pride in your appearance...yes, I agree...but those of you old guys...no hair .. with this great big beer belly gut hoping to catch a 22 year old as a trophy on your arm... PUHLEEZE!! (Father figure much??!!) Give your head a shake and take a HARD look at the man in the mirror!! I AM who I say I am...could you be YOU too ?? And you older guys...enough with the motorcyles!! Also, if you add me to your favourites list, then please leave a note ...otherwise..I will delete you after 3 days . I am not a woman scorned.. nor bitter..just calling it as I see it... I'm expecting to be deleted anyday now..by the powers that be... and so be it.. that's ok.. :) Finally.. I DO apologize to those men whom I've offended ..that are really sincere in trying to truly find someone online and wish you good luck.

I would like to have SOME kind of connection on here or by phone before JUMPING into meeting you the moment you say hi! An *interview* at CHARbucks coffee is not my preference.. nor is the 5 minute walk...how can you find out about someone walking beside them and not being able to look into their eyes?? So...still interested??