I'm a warm, considerate, easy-going, intelligent, compassionate guy with a great sense of humor and an even temperament, looking for a woman with similar qualities whose own idea of match-material doesn't necessarily require someone to be a jock or gym-rat, a gourmet, or a beach walker. I love intimate conversation, and am a great listener. But I need a partner who's also comfortable with moments of serenity and silence, in the company of a caring lover. I've traveled the world, including lots of exotic places, and hope to see still more in the future. But otherwise, paradoxically, I'm largely a homebody who'd just as soon spend time cuddling or hanging-out with a woman I care about (going to movies or shows, talking, reading, watching TV, or doing whatever else comes to mind) rather than attend big parties. I'm looking for a partner who's warm and kind, passionate and compassionate, has a sharp wit and keen sense of humor, enjoys listening as well as talking, is well-informed and enjoys discussing the events of the day (whether we agree, or not), and -- most important -- can be open and honest about her thoughts and feelings. What I seek is a deep relationship in which she and I can feel independent in mind and spirit, while held together by strong emotional and physical bonds. A relationship in which we are not only lovers, but also best friends who support each other's individual ambitions while sharing our lives.

Would just like to meet someplace quiet and low-pressure, for coffee or (preferably) a meal, allowing for relaxed conversation that will make it easy to decide what should come next.