interests: feminism, politics, body piercings, music, sarcasm, boys with dark hair and tattoos, trip-hop with female vocals, black, partying, girls in fetish gear, 80's night, reading, horses, poetry, my kitties, travel

music: dnb, psy trance, electro, industrial, trip hop, breaks...front 242, front line assembly, skinny puppy, clan of xymox, haujobb, depeche mode, nin, tool, deadboy and the elephantmen, the cure, emilie autumn, the birthday massacre...sarah mclachlan, lamb, laika, sneaker pimps, my brightest diamond, mandalay, portishead, daughter darling, adult, ladytron, crack:we are rock, juno reactor, a fine frenzy, regina spektor underworld, etc etc

books: Pride and Prejudice, Tully, Tiger Eyes, Harry Potter, Wheel of Time series, Sword of Truth series, The Red Tent, She's Come Undone, Wind-up Bird Chronicle, Hard-Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World, This Much I Know Is True, To Kill A Mockingbird, The Color Purple, I Know Why A Caged Bird Sings, A Handmaids Tale, 1984, Wicked, Oryx and Crake, Outlander series, Gone with the Wind, You Suck. anything by: Murakami, Robert Jordan, Tolkien, Lovecraft, Terry Goodkind, Poppy Z. Brite, George R.R. Martin, Christopher Moore

movies: lotr, white oleander, amelie, shawshank redemption, green mile, napoleon dynamite, dark crystal, mean girls, saved, four rooms, garden state, harry potter, mall rats, nightmare before christmas, interview with the vampire, juno,a clockwork orange, o brother where art thou, school of rock..

tv: ace of cakes, six feet under, sex and the city, the sopranos, my so called life, cake boss (yeah, i have a thing for cake tv)

open to suggestions for a first date, but i tend to like guys who fit this description:

dark hair & eyes, geek (computers, fantasy {movies, books, etc.}, video games), tattoos/piercings, artistic, reads (a lot), gainfully employed, likes tshirts, hoodies, music music music, boots (mmm), smart, cute, and tall(ish)

no cigarette smoking, facial hair, long hair, bad taste in music, or girlfriends (wives, baby mamas, etc)

i've done the whole casual sex thing and it's not for me so don't bother if that's all you are looking for