I am taking a break from this! Haven't found anyone yet. Don't need and want anyone right now. Good luck to you!


If you want to be successful and not waste time do this. (Hey yes! I want both!)

1) Talk about your hobbies.
I like to play with my 4 year old son. Besides that I like to read (newspapers, magazines, biographies, non-fiction, poetry), bowling, travel (I have seen over 30 countries and about half of the US), rock/mountain climbing, running (have run over 20 marathons). I am interested in listening to other peoples stories, learning about history, geography. I like politics, stand up comedy, movies, sometimes TV (CSI), Italian food. I always appreciate educated/intelligent/creative people with a wide range of knowledge.

2) Talk about your goals/aspirations
I want to travel to all 50 states of the US and travel to every continent at least once. I want to climb Mount Aconcagua in Argentina. I want to finish a 100k race at least once in my life (Have finished two 74k races that is almost 50miles). I want to live a healthy lifestyle (eat right, work out, appearance), think positive, smile every day, be a gentleman, spend my life with someone I love and keep learning as much as I can. I would also like to learn another language and a musical instrument.

3) Talk about youself (sic!) and what makes you unique
I am from Europe. Born there, lived there until I was 30. But don't worry my English is pretty good. I do not stutter some mumbo-jumbo all day long. I try everything at least once if it sounds reasonable and/or can't be explained with words. So I have done bungee, skydive and other so called crazy stuff. I am a very bad liar so I won't even try. I am straight forward and get to the point. If I like something I will tell you, if I don't like something I will tell you. I don't do smalltalk. I consider myself persistent. Once I commit to something or someone I am all in. I pick my fights, for the most part I am very diplomatic. I know how to behave in public. I know how to wear a suit (I was a banker for 9 years) but I prefer casual outfits now. I am not a storyteller but my sense of humor is unbelievably funny if I have a good day.

4) Your taste of music
Music is an important part of my life. When I was younger I was very narrow regarding the style of music but have opened up since. I used to like EBM, Dark Wave, Synthpop only (like Depeche Mode, Front 242). Now I like everything that entertains me, has good melody, a good story and/or is danceable. Hey I even begin to like some (pop-)Country.

5) Who am I looking for?
Someone who is intelligent, knowledgeable and yes smart. Someone I can have a conversation with about anything. Someone who inspires me and is spiritually demanding.

If I sound interesting enough for you please write

What we do for our first date does not really matter. What matters is physical attraction and chemistry. Everything else will be easy after that.