"In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one & yet remain two"

I'm a single working Dad here so I understand that priority and do not plan to interact my children with anyone to soon. Am very easy going, in shape/fit...teach 3 spin classes a week but by no means a gym rat. For me working out is more about how it makes you feel with looking good an extra added benefit. I have recently taken up surfing and wish that I had done it years ago. I am a caring person and know how to treat someone and am also involved in (as an organizer)a few charitable events throughout the year. I am a good listener and know how to have fun. I like to do just about anything as long as it is with the right person whether it be going out or just cuddling up and watching a good movie. I want a woman that jokes around is caring laidback and knows how to be a kid. I am looking for someone that understands that intimacy is more than what happens in the bedroom and appreciates being cherished. I like to be spontaneous at times and just get up and go and not always have to plan everything. We should try everything we want to in life once and the fun things twice.

I prefer a casual meeting first as opposed to a "date". Less pressure and no expectations for either of us. Be honest, look like the person in your RECENT pictures. Don't play games if you're truly interested after meeting then say so. Don't just say it to be nice then disappear.

If you noticed that I checked your profile and did not message you it may be because you don't have kids or didn't mention in your profile that you are okay with a guy with kids. It is a huge commitment and understandable if you are not up for that obligation and loss of some freedom to be spontaneous.